Right Now

Kayden is daily becoming better at getting her point across with her limited sentences. So far, her longest sentence has been "Keeley hit me". Which, to be honest, I'm not entirely sure was true since Kayden does most of the hitting at our house.

Anyway, Grandma was watching the girls the other evening for us and apparently was reading a book too fast for Kayden's liking. Kayden turned the page back to the one she wanted to read and said "stay here".

Today she and I were in the car and she requested gold fish, bar, and chicken (none of which we had). Each time I responded that we didn't have any. Her response. "RIGHT now." Apparently waiting is not going to be her strong suit.

Also, when we are riding in the car and she doesn't like a song she'll say "no like. song." and wave her hand until you change the station.

Nap Time

Keeley is no longer in her crib. Normally, this isn't a big problem. We get an occasional night time visit and she might get up once or twice at the very beginning of her nap. Usually though, she just goes to sleep.

Today, I put her down around 12:40 and then did some work on the computer. I sat down to watch TV at 1 in the living room and heard some noises and a door close. When I peaked back toward their rooms, I didn't hear anything and the doors were closed so I figured that she got something out of the bathroom and got back in bed.

About 1:20, she came out and said that she needed to get the "wrapper for Abby" Abby is Kayden's doll that Keeley is now sleeping with and the "wrapper" is the wrap that Keeley used with her babies when I would have Kayden in the moby. I said okay and she scampered up to the playroom. A few minutes later she ran back to her room and I said "go to bed."

Not even 3 minutes after that, she came back out in the living room (this is now close to an hour since I put her down originally. She had the biggest smile on her face and Abby was all wrapped up in the wrap. She looked at me and said "it's baby Jesus" and then she ran back to bed. Melted my heart.

More Language

I definitely think Kayden is developing her language ahead of the curve (which is good since she gets angry when she can't get her point across). Even still, I'm amazed at how well kids understand language and its rules.

Case in point:

Today I was putting on Kayden's shoes and she pointed to them. I said "those are your shoes". Her response was "my shoes. Kayden's shoes."

She's only 18 months old! She amazes me!

School Update

Kayden is doing much better at school right now. Today as we drove up she said "my school" and then told me about some of her friends. I'm thrilled she's having fun. The only down-side is that she won't nap now. Apparently she was only napping before because she was stressed. Today makes three weeks of not napping. Last week they said she just stood in her crib and said "okie-dokey" over and over. This week, she kept requesting books. Both teachers try to rock her but she is just not having it. She fights sleep like nothing else. We'll see if this keeps up after the new year! I liked her taking a nap there. This new situation means that Keeley gets a short nap (since we have to go get Kayden at 2) and Kayden has no nap for the day. There is still a lot of the day left with cranky kiddos with this plan!!

Language Development

Kayden has had an amazing explosion of language lately. She's starting to put words together to form sentences and uses some of the same phrases frequently. I'm amazed at how well she is able to communicate her thoughts and feelings. Some of my favorites right now:

* "stay here" - She does this if she is leaving a room and doesn't want me to follow. She'll hold up her hand, say it, take a few steps, turn around and say it again.

* "riiiight there!" - She does this with some emphatic finger pointing.

* "my work" - I knew this was coming. That is what they teach Keeley to say at school so Kayden hears it quite a bit from big sister. Today, Kayden was working on a block tower (technically, she commandeered Keeley's....) and Keeley added a block. Kayden, with a very serious face, came up to me and said "my work!" and pointed to her little chest.

She also is "reading" books now. She'll flip through the pages and say a few words that correspond to the page. They really are sponges at this age!

"The left one"

For the past three weeks, Keeley has been very preoccupied with "the left one". She'll show you two diapers and say "is this the left one?" or when looking at hers and Kayden's plates for meals "I want the left one". The frequency with which we hear this is a little crazy. When we were in Houston for Thanksgiving, my grandparents noticed and asked about it. I said that I had no idea where it came from. My only thought was they were working on it at school. Kelly and I talk to her about left and right but we never ask questions like that.

I asked Mrs. Sutton, she looked at me like I was crazy and said no. After a few days of thinking about it some more, I decided to ask Mrs. Alva. Mrs. Alva works with the kids in the transition room. That room contains works to prepare them for primary and a lot of them are left-right based to prepare them to read. Today I asked her and she looked at me like I was crazy too. She said no and then I explained my reasoning. She agreed that the transition room is set up that way, but said it is all unconscious for the kids.

I have no idea where the left one came from now!

18 months old

Kayden just had her 18 month check up. She is way ahead of the curve on most developmental things. For example, the doctor asked if she had five words. She probably has 500 words! She's already using two word sentences and frequently uses three syllable words. Gross motor skills continue to be advanced...we'll thank big sister's influence for that. The only developmental "concern" was sleep. Kayden continues to believe that she needs less sleep than Keeley (or any other kiddo her age for that matter). The pedi said there wasn't a whole lot we could do to really change that since we already have her on a schedule with bedtime routines and have already tried adjusting the times to see if that would help. She is just really, really stubborn when it comes to sleep. Actually, she is just really strong-willed in general.

Her stats:
Weight - 25lb (59%) - she stood on the big girl scale for the first time!
Length - 33inches (84%)

She continues to eat well, albeit completely different food than Keeley. She requests eggs for almost every meal and refuses to eat most fruit. She'll gladly eat a chick fil a kids meal and especially enjoys the chicken. This morning when we went to play, I got some chicken minis figuring she couldn't possibly be hungry - she'd just had a big breakfast and a clif bar in the car. She wanted my food though. I tried to give her an entire mini, she handed it back and said "no bread. chicken." If she sees you eating something or senses that you might be thinking about eating, she'll approach you and say "want some".

There is no climbing obstacle too big or too scary for her. Her full on tantrums are lessening a bit, but we still get the flailing, screaming, writhing ones occasionally. She can carry on for quite sometime if she's so inclined. She did it today for 40 minutes because she asked for Kelly and I said he was at work. The only thing that calmed her down was Keeley waking up. (Keeley actually told me Kayden woke her up with all the screaming...)

Overall though, she is a very joyful, strong-willed child.

Here she is dancing to the Christmas music from that decoration behind her. You'll notice she's completely off the ground. She likes to dance!
Dancing for Keeley before we decorated the Christmas tree.